The X stands for the .Public

The posts in the public category function both as a freebie and as a sample of the way I think, and as a way to get to know me a little. They are not necessarily (directly) related to celebrity life, a lot of it is stuff I wish everyone knew or paid attention to.

.Public Idealist Revolution The Male gender role

How to men react to the idea of reincarnation and soulmates?

So I speak to people on the psychic level, on the soul level. A lot of guys love my theories because they make sense (there’s a lot of sexual aspects to it that are awesome for both genders) and they like the logic, generally speaking, particularly when a girl describes the dynamics of a Solid Thinking group of men, they […]

.Public Parenting

How to teach your kids to LOVE vegetables

This does require a garden patch, but a few pots might do

I can’t say I have got kids myself, but I do know about having been one. We lived in the suburbs and had quite a big backyard, a large chunk of which had been upturned for a garden patch. My mum was a farmer’s daughter, and growing your own potatoes seemed like the only sensible thing for a woman to […]


Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna breakup…

The bottom line: It's not over 'till it's over...

First, I want to point out that these two tweets are precisely everything I know about these two people, apart from, of course, knowing the name Kardashian – and I can’t be bothered to find the originals as I’m not on Snapchat myself. At first, I thought Rob was black because of this tweet (an adopted brother or something?!), so […]


43 questions to make up your Life Wish List with

What do you want out of your life?

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series LOA Cheat Sheet

This entry is part 1 of 3 in the series LOA Cheat SheetA cheat sheet for your Law of Attraction problems Don’t write the answers down. You’ll get excited about the best ideas and they’ll stay with you anyway, and there is no point obsessing about remembering wishes you can’t even remember. Answer these following questions honestly and with joy. […]

.Public Personality Mirror Typology Based

What you need to know about The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology

What is it, and what is it not

This entry is part 4 of 5 in the series Reoccurring Themes

This entry is part 4 of 5 in the series Reoccurring ThemesHere are some pointers to prevent any misunderstandings in the future, your own, but more to the point misunderstandings that you might give others should you try and repeat parts of the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology to another person (Fluid Thinkers in particular). I certainly have managed to not […]

.Public Personality Mirror Typology Based

Missusing the Personality Spirit Mirror Soulmate Typology

This is the Fluid way of thinking things, and goes without saying to Solid Thinkers.

This post is public because my chosen members already know this as a goes without saying -sort of thing, while I seem not to be able to make this clear to some people (about 99% of them being women) who email me out of the blue: Some people approach the soulmate theory from an entirely wrong angle. They may think: “OK, I […]

.Public Relationship Sexual Traumas and Embarrassment The Law of Attraction

What is the difference between Liberation and Oppression

You wouldn't think these two could be confused, would you?

This entry is part 2 of 5 in the series Reoccurring Themes

This entry is part 2 of 5 in the series Reoccurring ThemesLiberation: The act of enabling or giving a permission for another person or a group to do something that they want to do but feel obstructed or forbidden from doing, or freeing them from the expectation of keeping doing something that they do not want to keep doing. Oppression: […]


How to “make” men and teens share house chores without nagging

Get a cup of coffee, a magazine, sit back and wait for dinner.

I hate the approach of “making” anyone do anything. That said, whatever man I’ve ever shared a home with, be that a husband, boyfriend, friend, or a dad, I’ve never once had to complain about them not doing enough chores. One thing is for sure, though, I didn’t learn this from my mother, who had to fight for every small favor […]

.Public The Law of Attraction

Can you think your way to a new life?

And fix relationships to people who you can't talk to directly?

It all begins with a thought. Without having a thought, NOTHING will ever come to be. Without an idea, a goal, a dream, what are you but doomed to stay in one place. If you don’t even know what kind of chances you’re looking for, it is unlikely you’ll be prepared to grab one if one came your way. It […]


What about your life is so pleasurable/difficult that you deserve my ear?

The Solid Thinker / Fluid Thinker difference that makes your opinion irrelevant

The Solid Thinkers are hedonists. They thrive towards the direct pleasures in life, and KNOWINGLY seek for an enjoyable way of life. The Fluid Thinkers enjoy feeling important. Therefore, they are drawn to difficulty, calamity, and hardships, something that will prove to others that they are survivors, responsible people who can handle any form of difficulty, and manage the situation […]